Chivalry is something that comes naturally to me. Lighting cigarettes, opening doors, picking up dropped items are just some of the things that I do without even giving any thought to it.
I'm kicking myself for not having my lighter in the right pocket and allowing someone else to lean in and light my girl's cigarette.
I am a little bit torn here since de-programming myself may be really difficult. I don't know how not to be a gentleman. On the other hand no one comes before my girl. No one. If I have to cut back on the chivalry with others in order to make her happy, I may just do that. ;)